He's great, no amazing everything i ever wanted in a guy. We have a lot in common, especially our friends. You see his best friend is my ex-boyfriend. Yes i know you don't date the best friend but, he was my best friend first. I've known him since elementary school and my ex has only known him for a year or so. I think i kind of have the advantage here.
We've kind of been i guess you could say on and off for a year and little bit. He has asked me out but I liked someone else at that point so i said no thinking he would never want to talk to me again. But he didn't he still stayed my best friend that's how sweet he is.
But, when i started dating his best friend we kind of parted. Until i started having problems with my boyfriend.
Then he would try his best to help me. So instinctively i started to fall for him because he was my shoulder to lean on.We started spending time together and he told me he really liked me. I thought long and hard and i decided i need to break up with my boyfriend because i just didn't feel the same way about him anymore.It was mostly him and not the other guy but part of it was my feelings for him. My boyfriend took it real hard and he is still rocky about being friends but i can see he's trying.
When i told this other guy that i liked him and want to be with him he was all for it but just wanted to take it slow for now so that his best friend could heal and be okay with the idea of us, in time. So i was like okay sounds like a good steady plan.
That's where we are now.
THE PROBLEM :He says he really likes me and i believe him because i like him too. But, i don't know what's happening with him right now. He has A LOT of pretty girl friends and I am not the jealous type but the things he says that he'll do with me and only me he does with them? So I am really confused? I don't know if
A.he's just being a big flirt and really does like me
or
B. he's keeping me lingering on his every word but straying from the idea of liking me, moving on and such.
I really want to be with him but i do want us to take it slow and it's working but he sometimes seems into the idea of me and him and other times he will be like yes your my friend!( and only friend.)
Help!
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Ask him is he is ready for a relationship. Tell him how you feel, so you can end that awkwardness. GO FOR IT!